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items I don't make it my entire personality but my oldest child is neurodivergent, autistic and I am ADHD. that combo of different brains takes a lot of coordination and energy form me to keep us both level headed and feeling loved. so prioritising myself is as important as convincing my son there are foods outside foo\ cheese puffs and pizza.
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Hair
Tech
Skin & Makeup
Miscellaneous
Hair
I have one huge vanity and it's my hair. I started really taking care of my hair when I went natural at the age of 16 which to date myself was over 20 years ago. I've had complicated routines but as a mom of two I've broken it down to most central pa...
This is the number one hair care brand I use. Once again not sponsored it just works.
Melanin Haircare
another hair product for styling my hair type I use about three and this one of my favorite for wet setting my curls.
Amazon.com: Felicia Leatherwood
I’ve been using one of these styling heat caps since about December and I found that while my hair is still shorter than I want it certainly getting healthier and it’s really helping with the process of maintaining my hair, especially after having tw...
Alotlucky Hair Thermal Steamer Treatment SPA Cap Nourishing Care Hat with Adjustable Temperature Control,Moisturize and Nourish, Hair Care for Home Use(Black)
I love putting my hair in protective styles. I like to have fun with color. I don't plan to color my actual hair but I'll happily play with different shades of braiding hair.
AFNOTE Ombre Braiding Hair 24 Inch Braid Hair Extensions 3Pcs Pre Stretched High Temperature Crochet Braiding Hair (C26)…
I love this long tie on bonnet for when I have my hair in long braids. It helps reduce friction and tension.
AWAYTR Long Satin Bonnet for Women - Double Layer Elastic Silk Bonnet for Braids Hair Sleeping Cap with Tie Band (Rose Gold)
Accessories for said braided hair are a girls best friend.
Lucomb 220 Pcs Silver Hair Jewelry for Braids, Loc Jewelry for Hair Dreadlock, Hair Charms for Women, Metal Silver Braids Rings Cuffs Clips for Dreadlock Accessories Hair Braids Jewelry Decorations
Tech
Yes, another section for technology that I use in my downtime for self-care, especially with my iPad mini that I primarily use as a kindle with fancy up abilities
At first, I thought this was a really extra purchase and wondered why I spent $18 on this because I can totally turn my own pages right? But my adorable four month old loves nothing more than to nap on mommy after a 10 minute fight to sleep being abl...
Inncarvs RF Remote Control Page Turner for Kindle Reading, Camera Remote Shutter Selfie Controller, for E-Book iPad iPhone Android Comics
Yes, I know that iPad don't have safe charging, but I use this as a stand because my iPad mini is mostly for reading and note taking; I'll buy another when I upgrade my phone this year.
MINDSKY Magnetic Phone Ring Stand Compatible with MagSafe Cases iPhone 12 13 14 15 Series (pop Base)
This stand has been a game changer in just recording videos, but when I am nap trapped with my baby, I can still read with this on whatever chair we are resting at.
Lamicall Gooseneck Tablet Holder, Tablet Stand : Flexible Arm Clip Tablet Mount Compatible with iPad Mini Pro Air, Switch, Galaxy Tabs, More 4.7-10.5" Devices - Gray
Another page turner this time it's a purple ring. I have this as a backup for travel more or when I misplace the remote to the big one.
STDFORU Auto Clicker for TikTok Live Scrolling Ring Bluetooth Remote Control for TIK Tok Scrolling Ring for iPhone iPad Android Kindle App Page Turner Remote(Purple)
Skin & Makeup
I managed to escape puberty with very few acne scars. but some hormonal changes have left me with dark spots that I would prefer to get rid of. These Products are how I'm working on my skin health aesthetically speaking.
I do have a small mini fridge for skincare eye masks and breastmilk it haelps with those middle of the knight pumps.
Cooluli Mini Fridge for Bedroom - Car, Office Desk ...
I try not to go for the 16-step sink routine things. I don't have time for that I do have time for a daily cleanse tent evens my skin tone.
Pure Kojic Acid Skin Brightening Soap, Even Tone Cleansing Face and Body Bar for Glowing Skin, Moisturizing, Sun Damage Skin with Tea Tree, Coconut Oil, Vegan, Paraben-Free, 2.82 oz (2 Bars)
I love African black soap; I use it as my primary cleanse from head to toe I also dilute a lot and strongly recommend spot testing before you go all in.
Aroma Depot 8 oz Raw African Liquid Black Soap 100% Natural soap for Acne, Eczema, Psoriasis, and Dry Skin Scar Removal Face And Body Wash. Handmade imported from Ghana
Sunscreen has always been a challenge for me because I didn’t want that white cast they always appear on brown skin. This brand However lets me protect my skin and not look ghostly.
Black Girl Sunscreen - Moisturizing Sunscreen Lotion SPF 30, No White-Residue, Formulated with Natural Ingredients for Melanin Rich Skin (2 Fl. Oz.)
I have two small children and make up brushes I don't take chances with my face and eyes. I wash my brushes at least twice a week.
Makartt Makeup Brush Cleaner 3Pcs Set,for Cleaning Makeup Sponges,Brushes and Powder Puff,Deep Cleaning Makeup Brush Cleaner Solution with cleaning bowl,Removes Makeup Cosmetic Residue(4.04 fl oz)
Miscellaneous
For all of the products that don't quite fit neatly into the other categories of self-care list
This glasses holder is wonderful. it solves the peoblem of taking my glasses off at the nightstand and losing them or worse crushing them. they also keep excess debris form scratching the glass, extending the life of my frames.
Fintie Plush Lined Eyeglasses Holder with Magnetic Base- Premium Vegan Leather Glasses Stand Case
Sometimes ya gotta be fancy even when all you’re doing is making oatmeal and rocking a newborn.
Super Shopping-zone Women's Floral Long Silk Kimono Robes Satin Dressing Gown Peacock Blossoms
I live for a good blanket; especially when I have to share with my little blanket bandit.
BEDELITE Fleece Blanket Black Throw Blankets for Couch & Bed, Plush Cozy Fuzzy Blanket 50" x 60", Super Soft & Warm Blankets for Fall and Winter
This is an investment in long term comfort. I don’t particular care for the hair their grows in places I don’t authorize but I can’t make the time for blazer hair removal out of town. This allows me to get the hair removal I want and still meet my fa...
Ulike Laser Hair Removal for Women and Men, Air 3 IPL Hair Removal with Sapphire Ice-Cooling System for Nearly Painless & Long-Lasting Result, Flat-Head Window for Body & Face at-Home Use
I use stainless steel water bottles but I also dropped it 6 months ago and I had to get something to keep it working. These sleeves are great for keeping your water bottle from getting dented and for giving a dented one a second life.
Protective Silicone Sleeve Boot 12oz-24oz Wide Mouth Water Bottle for Hydro Flask,Simple,Takeya, BPA Free Anti-Slip, and Compatible with 20-40oz Stanley Tumbler(Flowers Naguna)
I never wear shoes in the house so my feet are always on this spa is so soothing I've almost fallen asleep with my feet in.
Homedics Smart Space Deluxe Footbath with Heat Boost White FB-525H - Best Buy